“It gets harder as you get older.”
Well yes, but actually no.
This is something I’ve heard no less than a dozen times since January the 1st, and from people in their 30’s.
Okay, your 30, not dead and the reason you’ve gained fat, lost muscle and feel shit about yourself is because you allowed it to happen because life got comfortable.
Yep, it’s all on you, the universe or other cosmic entity just went with the choices you decide to make.
Age, like having kids or some phantom/elf diagnosed medical condition, is the perfect excuse for people to hide behind because to question it will have you almost burned at the steak.
In full candour, life it simply hard there are very few breaks given and the struggle is real.
In this knowledge you have two real choices:
1 – Do the best you can with what you’ve been given 2 – Hide behind excuses like everyone else
There isn’t much more to it really.
Yes barriers, unfortunate events and general shit will crop up, that is inevitable however it’s how you choose to deal with it that counts.
Excuse or effort, it’s your call.
Don’t get me wrong, I’m far from free of the above because so many excuses have come from my lips, so well thought out that I almost even convinced myself of their validity and who they truly stopped me moving forwards.
This of course was all bullshit, they were just excuses that gave me a reason to give up and not feel too bad about it when the truth of the matter was so much simpler.
It wasn’t important enough to me.
That is literally what it comes down to, and in addition to that I learned from a very young age that telling people this, that things or they didn’t matter went down like a lead ballon. So I started making excuses that would protect everyone and give me an out.
All bullshit really and as I got older and less worried about the world and the people in it I found my attitude evolved into what it is now –
‘I will tell you the truth regardless, you can choose to response or react because I’m done.’
Excuses come in may shapes and sizes, as do our legitimate barriers/obstacles.
There is one crucial difference between them though, a barrier/obstacle will have options to overcome it and still slow you to move forwards, even if slowly, essentially they simply slow you down and will eventually no longer be an issue/consideration.
An excuse on the other hand will be there forever because you’re allowing it to be there because you’ve created it and to remove it will involve you being 100% honest with yourself in the fact that you put it there to sabotage yourself and give you a reason to fail, quite, give up and stay weak or helpless.
Excuse or effort, your choice.
If it really means something to you then you’ll find a way, like life.
Life will always find a way to keep growing, you should too.