Two classic lines said by many –
“I can’t put on weight, and I eat loads.”
“I can’t lose weight, and I don’t eat much.”
If the above were true weight would either go up or down, if that isn’t the case then that means only one thing.
You’re not doing what you think you’re doing.
A strong mindset and accountability are interesting things.
Not everyone wants them.
Instead they a quick fix or diet pill to solve all their problems.
If it came to their work and the staff they manage or their business they’d rain down fiery hell on their staff for not doing what they’re meant to be doing or making poor excuses, however when it comes to themselves and making a change, well they’re different and need special attention.
What we all need is to accept that the only way to change is to accept that we are the result of our own choices, for the most part*.
*Less for legitimate medical exceptions in which case see a specialist.
Actually, touching on the medical excuse above, many will claim to have an issue, self diagnosed of course and it stops them achieving a result.
Go see a specialist, if something is wrong it will be shown, then you can start working to sort it.
Anyway, back to the point.
As a modern culture we have an untold amount of excuses ready and waiting for our own poor behaviours/attitudes, yet we wouldn’t accept them from out staff or people we’re responsible for.
We’d tell them how it was and that they need to sort it out.
Yet when it comes to people accepting they’re the problem, the blinkers come down and the ‘poor me’ attitude follows.
Ask yourself, do I want change or not?
Give it some thought.